Poll: How do you perceive spanking as punishment for children? - spanking college videos
Persuasional I make a speech to college and decided that a spanking, and if the abuse or degrading. (Punishment convincing)
And I think I need to collect a public inquiry, opinions on what the people themselves.
Well, first, whether they had previously lost.
Then, the facts about the person, which means you have a family? Do you have accused of a crime? (Do not tell me what it was.)
Tell me if the shots have not received and affected your life today.
So, if you want an opinion, give fine, but just do not rant is not sufficient.
I need facts.
Personally, I would punish my future children with beatings. There is no way I'm going to cope with, even if I fought as a child. I am a friendly, warm person, who smiles as much as possible, and learned of his punishment, certain actions were wrong. I did not learn to "ask" others about it. So do not trust that the state has taken only spanking.
Spanking College Videos Poll: How Do You Perceive Spanking As Punishment For Children?
30 comments:
I believe that spanking is a good result or punishment for unacceptable behavior after warnings and other methods to break.
1. Yes, my husband, my brother and 2 sisters were lost as children.
2. I've been married for 12 years, 3 children, no crime or misdemeanor (the same for me, husband, brother and sisters),
3. It is my thought that the idea that we could get a spanking in childhood, has convinced us to go in the right direction.
4. I use hitting as a punishment for our 3 girls. This is of course clear after a warning, and if the decomposition of "New Age" methods.
5. I've never been in a fight of my life. However, I did not think really proceed from the fact that it is a great achievement, because I'm a woman fighting stance is (I really do not know that hitting the far too) Now my husband is doing a big, strong and Training in many different martial arts, is doing dangerous things can be, but he has never been in a fight. We agree that the better children than I, has helped keepproblems, and we learn not to hit others. My brothers share our opinion.
Good Luck
I have before me. I am a wonderful relationship with my wife and we are expecting our first child in June, I've never been accused of a crime. The beatings I received did not affect how I live my life today. Personally, I do not believe in spanking, corporal punishment is effective to believe, but only briefly. Learning a lesson lasts longer than the fear of physical pain. This does not mean that I leave to my children run wild and indulge Cusse bit of thinking either.
I had parents and were able to maintain control over us without a penalty.
showed me once. I do not know what I did, however, was about 4 or 5
I know he had problems with my cousin and they were criticized at the time. The night after we finished dinner, and I was in my pajamas my mother came to talk about my bad decisions and then say I need a fighter. She uses a hairbrush. I think it hurt worse for my feelings than I do.
I grew up with loving people. My beating gave me a great lesson.
I did the same with my child. is 4th I met him, but rarely necessary.
when he was a child I fights back to get his attention when he heard there is an attack or not started.
I then began for two reasons: 1 a dangerous situation - if anything they might damage during spanking. Performer int he parking, etc. 2 there is a lack of respect for me 3rd If there is something wrong in school or elsewhere and not to think, time enough, UTOPank before bedtime, like my mother. I had to do it twice, and no longer act in the school. :)
I do not believe in spanking, if the father is angry. I do not believe believe in spanking as the only form of punishment. I do not believe believe in spanking, in public and embarrass his son.
Hope this helps. SD
I believe in spanking, I have a 1 a.m. to 3 p.m. years old, of course, my one year old is never better than my 3 years, but I am. Save as a last resort and results. far cry from my eldest daughter Turing speaking time not only what his time in the time I started to say if the adjustment took time out of his ass, used to beat me, so had to hit him, but 2 times from this reason, they now know what to do in the waiting time. And the other reason that I Spank danger to themselves or others. When I ran into the street while I was her little sister put in the car, they would get a slap on the butt or you tryed to touch the point of sale. These are things that she does not know they do these things. I believe that hitting to take a slap on the buttocks or hand, I do not think anything but reasonable. Oh, yeah, no offense or anything.
I think it is a spanking (whipping cream call is what it was then). To have left behind, whip me, and pain, the marks, bruises or scratches! I have a family, crime charged, no not yet, been w / a! Corporal punishment i out of my way I would not whip or beat my child so! I think spanking is done well and good, provided that no abusive or spanking whips! I think what my father did not abuse striking or whipped cream. The strikes, as a child, you should never hit a child is enough to leave a mark or a bruise on her! I am thinking away something they love is better than a punishment spanking! It hurts more when something they like or they do not play and leaves room for abuse removed! You do not have to question whether it is good or bad! Just take a privilege for a moment! the punishment is enough for every child! How does a slap on the buttocks, sometimes it is nice if nothing else.
I do not remember losing it, but I was emotionally abused by the constant criticism and public humiliation. I am a wife and mother of three teenagers, was never placed with a crime a burden. I used to spank my children to despair, from time to time, but soon he found had no other effect than to be angry and afraid. This is not what I wanted for my children. Since I have to learn slowly and painfully, a better way. My children are older, I am the people are proud of forever. Best wishes.
I do not remember losing it, but I was emotionally abused by the constant criticism and public humiliation. I am a wife and mother of three teenagers, was never placed with a crime a burden. I used to spank my children to despair, from time to time, but soon he found had no other effect than to be angry and afraid. This is not what I wanted for my children. Since I have to learn slowly and painfully, a better way. My children are older, I am the people are proud of forever. Best wishes.
I taught as a child. I'm like a left child, if anybody hurt. I have three wonderful children. I have a large family who believes in spanking. Who me who I am today. A friendly, respectable members of society without any form of crime or criminal record. I say yes, Sir, No Sir, yes I am, and not me, please and thank you.
Some of these children must now spanking yesterday!
I am planning .. I've lost a preschool. I havent been responsible for all crimes ..
Never affected by the blows of my father are .. Infact, it has helped me understand what I have .. Perhaps the way my father did Spank .. I talked the whole process and to humble down and admit my guilt, and say "Im sorry to speak" from heart to heart and kiss her.
This is also how I train my son.
NO, I flogging as a punishment but as a learning tool. It is an abuse of corporal when applied to the object and the wrong method. You should not do that ... There should be caution in this area!
Never trained to use the hand or a child discipline .. His hands are to care .. Use a bar. It can be fun, but I use a thin stick of glue for this purpose .. I put several in the interior of the house (1 on top of the ref., A in the bedroom, another) on the floor .. That is why I avoid with my hands, and I have access to the bar "in every part of my son begins his heinous deeds
AlRemember that you and your spouse have the same beliefs, have the same rules .. and be consistent and is very effective
If you believe in the Bible, then it is clear, says: "Whoever hates his wand cleaning his son, but he loves him disciplines him promptly" (Proverbs 13:24).
The magic wand "correction" is very effective for the formation of a child still young .. For example, you can not really give a child's education to a delicate flower vase in his coffee table, playing a change to "small" .. Identifiable, if your child when he does something that is not good, "switching" the status of the mind there is a sequence be.
There are so many ways to "stick" as a training device ..
The trunk is only for the discipline when she is old enough to know what is right and wrong uses.
But remember to use the strike to wound .. The goal is to strengthen the discipline.
Also, be sure not to show his anger when the beating .. You havand control your emotions .. him. Always remember that you are with your training be a good person. (even if you believe the Bible, nature, people are sinners .. so even if you do not teach a child to lie or disrespect shown to his sinful nature .. if we teach from the beginning) ...
It may seem at first rebels, if you change .. But later, his heart was soft .. The time will come to their senses and say "Im sorry" and then crying .. It is time to embrace and talk with him about what he was doing .. and always remember your love ..
If you are consistent, you are the fruits of a good-natured child always reap bigger until they feel happy and proud of it
Or both, and your child will be closer to the train or discipline him) (right to do if you do not have a staff of correction to impose
You have not seen children who do not benefit from education in their youth grow up, feeling worthless, and crime?
I hope this will help youR Research
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What is wrong with against children?
The society I grew up where I was afraid of their parents and know what to expect if they were disobedient.
A good slap father naked ass is worth a thousand words.
It is interesting that I had learned, and a strong discipline as a child and thought it was something to do with my children to find that kind of discipline that caused more problems than they cure. If you're afraid, and I do not understand why they teach that makes them feel they could be heavily at any time, what do they will be punished. My children are reduced to tears and spend up to 30 minutes in order to help them to feel better.
Beat has worked with previous generations, but these children do not respond as well as other methods. He is wrong. It is wrong to teach children to solve problems with violence. It's bad, then they press meet more people. To strengthen the friendship, polite, nice, caring people, that is, how to treat them and how he should behave.
I was lost. I am a mother of 40 years of age 2 There are no charges against me whatsoever.
Peace!
It is interesting that I had learned, and a strong discipline as a child and thought it was something to do with my children to find that kind of discipline that caused more problems than they cure. If you're afraid, and I do not understand why they teach that makes them feel they could be heavily at any time, what do they will be punished. My children are reduced to tears and spend up to 30 minutes in order to help them to feel better.
Beat has worked with previous generations, but these children do not respond as well as other methods. He is wrong. It is wrong to teach children to solve problems with violence. It's bad, then they press meet more people. To strengthen the friendship, polite, nice, caring people, that is, how to treat them and how he should behave.
I was lost. I am a mother of 40 years of age 2 There are no charges against me whatsoever.
Peace!
Just as there was a time in this country, where a man beats his wife and his choice is a private family matter, today is the attitude of the children. Hopefully this change, because people think that violence is not just acceptable. Yes, many people, as children, it goes well, but that's really the only way she could be disciplined? Education for peace in a peaceful world. I taught as a child and my father has been in therapy for her and peace with him, and forgave her, but I can not be approved.
Just as there was a time in this country, where a man beats his wife and his choice is a private family matter, today is the attitude of the children. Hopefully this change, because people think that violence is not just acceptable. Yes, many people, as children, it goes well, but that's really the only way she could be disciplined? Education for peace in a peaceful world. I taught as a child and my father has been in therapy for her and peace with him, and forgave her, but I can not be approved.
Just as there was a time in this country, where a man beats his wife and his choice is a private family matter, today is the attitude of the children. Hopefully this change, because people think that violence is not just acceptable. Yes, many people, as children, it goes well, but that's really the only way she could be disciplined? Education for peace in a peaceful world. I taught as a child and my father has been in therapy for her and peace with him, and forgave her, but I can not be approved.
Yes, I taught as a child, but I think we should call it "Spatt. Only when I am in a situation that would cause me or other damage, and as a means to attract my attention.
I have a family ... I've been married a great guy. We have raised 3 children ... 25, 24 and 17 Law-abiding, well-adjusted people are.
No, neither I nor my husband has never been accused of anything, let alone a crime.
He told me I was "defective" as a child. I do not remember, but I was told that I was, and only when necessary to get out of danger. I was the "us" in his, her marriage, and us. My father had lost his three daughters from a previous marriage, and I was the "baby" and the marriage of her mother and her only daughter, who is there now. It is therefore natural to deteriorate. My mother was forbidden to beat me, but she has a lot of shouting and threats done. He did not know how we knew it would not support what he said, and so I wasa total brat! My relationship with my mother was growing terrible, because it caused so much tension. I'm sure if she was allowed to beat me, must be given support what he said, and I want to know if I not followed, the consequences would have been good.
Our children are involved, from the moment they were old enough to reply the word "no." We Spatt hands and said "no" when they came for things they have not (18 months), or if it hurts, and gradually as I got older, we begin to take deliberate disobedience. Later, when they were old enough to understand who explained the concept of sin and God had ordered him to guide us in the right and wrong, and permitted when away with bad things are not met. In addition, we have all ... Authority figures of parents, teachers, employers, local police, who eventually learn to respect God himself, and had us first position after the teachers, chiefs, law, and one day, God.
I think if not done in the right direction with the right rear (in anger or revenge), spanking can be effective. But not all children, or work in all situations. As our children grow up, we turned to the abolition of privileges, grounding, etc. We have found that the age of 10 I have met so many times because I knew we were going to support our words if necessary.
My daughter is married and has 2 children, 6 and 5 She and her husband to use spanking, in combination with other forms of discipline. The beat is reserved for willful disobedience and deception, because he was with her.
When I see programs like Supernanny or Nanny 911, and you will see the parents for their children hostage, I can not help thinking that raise children without discipline, a form of child abuse in itself! The children get without solving tool, their feelings and frustrations, do not throw tantrums and cry for their parents and not givenConsequences of their behavior. When I hear parents say they do not want to beat up because they fear it will have lasting trauma for their children, I wonder what kind of causing injury if their children to prison because I never set limits?
I tell them to have to take the success of their youth, they have learned the lesson, and if not just to beat
I do not believe in physical violence to believe, against a child. My argument is that hitting a child is not too much intelligence and parenting skills, but ... If you check the monkeys in the jungle, they beat their children too often ... I've always been led to believe that even if it be doubtful that people really are smarter than monkeys can ... I have not found that many of their children are affected, all but intelligent.
When the shots they gave me as a child, I have forgiven each year because you have them. I have nerve and muscle damage in his left eye, I thank my father. I also have sinusitis and respiratory problems that wonderful moment when they broke my nose ... Thank you once again with his father. I have scars on his back legs, eyelashes, "I belt with a massive city on their way to school one afternoon. (I do not know, I'm wearing a bathing suit, because) of the scar. I think it's pretty obvious they have no respect for my father or my mother, when in fact ... I was 16 toHow emancipated teenager, I went home, worked two part-time jobs until the age of 18 years and was able to get a full-time job. A young girl was me, my virginity when I was forced to return home because of pneumonia and hospital doctors are no longer free me back when I agreed to stay lost with my parents until I ... I lost my virginity in her living room couch at the age of 19 ...
I've never been accused of a crime. He was never charged with a crime. I've never had a parking ticket, never been in a car accident. Never blow my child ... and was no angel. during the "terrible two", she will sleep with such force that jump, beating his head against a hard surface in the vicinity. She bit her to beat up, broke the skin a few times and held his breath until he is blue.
I am not saying that applies only to forgive Suggest ... I'm not saying that hitting is not the respect ... People are afraid of warranty claims, however, disrespect, and I can not say that IBlame a child who was disrespectful to their parents because they lack the intelligence to find an alternative to shocks.
I do not believe in physical violence to believe, against a child. My argument is that hitting a child is not too much intelligence and parenting skills, but ... If you check the monkeys in the jungle, they beat their children too often ... I've always been led to believe that even if it be doubtful that people really are smarter than monkeys can ... I have not found that many of their children are affected, all but intelligent.
When the shots they gave me as a child, I have forgiven each year because you have them. I have nerve and muscle damage in his left eye, I thank my father. I also have sinusitis and respiratory problems that wonderful moment when they broke my nose ... Thank you once again with his father. I have scars on his back legs, eyelashes, "I belt with a massive city on their way to school one afternoon. (I do not know, I'm wearing a bathing suit, because) of the scar. I think it's pretty obvious they have no respect for my father or my mother, when in fact ... I was 16 toHow emancipated teenager, I went home, worked two part-time jobs until the age of 18 years and was able to get a full-time job. A young girl was me, my virginity when I was forced to return home because of pneumonia and hospital doctors are no longer free me back when I agreed to stay lost with my parents until I ... I lost my virginity in her living room couch at the age of 19 ...
I've never been accused of a crime. He was never charged with a crime. I've never had a parking ticket, never been in a car accident. Never blow my child ... and was no angel. during the "terrible two", she will sleep with such force that jump, beating his head against a hard surface in the vicinity. She bit her to beat up, broke the skin a few times and held his breath until he is blue.
I am not saying that applies only to forgive Suggest ... I'm not saying that hitting is not the respect ... People are afraid of warranty claims, however, disrespect, and I can not say that IBlame a child who was disrespectful to their parents because they lack the intelligence to find an alternative to shocks.
Yes, I was lost, I am a woman, mother of a son and two stepchildren. I am a housewife, not crimes or misdemeanors. Yes spanking helped me with the direction, now in my life. Re not always in today's world of work, if you're a child and not taken before you have something done before, think about the consequences. Be blessed!
I am a father of four children. I was beaten as a child. NO, I do not think it was me if I choose spaank, as I studied the development of children in school. Ino, I'm not afelon or have been arrested for anything.
I believe that clothes can be effective blows for somethings, such as avoidance of possible injuries adangersous situation, ie afork in an electrical outlet. The blow to repeat an unpleasant stimulus behavuior side to prevent it. However, as a rule give the sanction of punishment is not a good idea. If you try to model the love and care for the child to inflict pain can counterporductive. Counsequencing, removal of privileges, which gives a child a time limit, etc., can be more effective.
As a parent you need to make an informed decision about how to discipline your child. It is expected that approximately 95% of people in this website will tell you everything is about the big shots. They say: "I've lost and I turned OK, spare the rod, etc." Most of them justify it by saying "Spank with love, anger or not, there is a difference between abuse and spanking SPANKING, or only if they are about connecting to a hot stove or running into the street." These words of the most popular pro - spankers. These people seem to think that beating should be the only alternative to good behavior.
I am in favor of discipline and I think we can raise a spoiled child, rebellious, aggressive and uncontrollable, if you are a permissive parent. This kind of parents do not have the discipline at all, and let their children play a show devotion to them, or simply have no structure, rules, consequences and consistency. I think we can raise the children without strokes. Yes, I was lost from both parents.
I'm disadvantages and use timeout, removing privileges, or redirectIon (distraction) for children under 2 years. It really works for us and we have a lot of praise for the conduct of our children. They do not respect us and fear us. Spanking is one of the easiest ways for parents because it allows their children to the rule of fear.
Pro-Spankers educate their children according to their old habits and impulses, because that is how they obtained them. Their tendency is not the motivation to learn and improve. Lack of education for the development of the child, not about parenting classes and most likely not work with children professionally. Blame (no strokes) for the state of today's people. You can order happy, confident, intelligent child without corporal punishment. Visit website or supernanny Dr. Sears. They are so great, effective ways to discipline that really work. Add only teaches that hitting is wrong and you do not want your child spanking for the day when an adult is so angry against you. The people are better educated on this issue, the best thing in parenting. Parents seem to whiskack a bit of intelligence. After the discovery may all your strength, you change your opinion on corporal punishment for their children.
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What you do not find in his studies on spanking is to promote research that suggest that benefits for the beating and you are not all experts recommend specializes in childhood. You old-fashioned views.
He was beaten when I was young. I have a very loving family and I think if he had not been beaten as a child not a respectful adult. No, I have never been arrested or committed a crime. I blows as a disciplined approach used. He has worked with children forever, why change a good thing. This is not abuse if they are affected by anger, leaving a trace, or use a dull object.
I think we should define spanking. There is a fine line between that and abuse. I have no problem with an occasional swat on the ass and let your children know exactly what they do wrong and what should be the correct behavior. I only use the crowd as a last resort. Generally, a warning, then the waiting time. and then a beating. I believe that you were never anything but your hand should be hit hard in the ass to be used once.
I've never lost (unless fired once with a nanny, it was after the incident). My parents are threatened, but never do. The nurse was fired because I did not cry, my brother and my mother was not comfortable with a nanny discipline their children in this way. I have a family of very strong and stable. Neither of the blows I received from my sister or beatings, which I affected by my parents in any way. I'm (in my son a few times, albeit slightly enough to know what they did was wrong), but I'm not very often, and I do not like it. I think sometimes the only way they know what they are doing is wrong. Timeouts and crying does not always work. Scourge of the anger I'd never do if my child needs some discipline. And I never touch a child by someone else, it is a mistake. Do not think my daughter will be led by the storms. First, there is not much, and secondly, it has a stable loving family. I think parenthood and stabilizationITY of the family has more to do, how the child is living his life, used not the kind of punishment parents.
Hot sauce? Are you crazy? This is worse than the plague!
Yes, I was lost, beaten in the face, hit the ground, victims of sexual abuse, and ambiguous on the face and head. No, I have never been charged with a crime. Yes, I have a family that wants nothing to do with me. First to hit and do not believe the police and CPS, my fucking problems of dominance, but that's all. Spanking is discipline.
Yes, I was lost, beaten in the face, hit the ground, victims of sexual abuse, and ambiguous on the face and head. No, I have never been charged with a crime. Yes, I have a family that wants nothing to do with me. First to hit and do not believe the police and CPS, my fucking problems of dominance, but that's all. Spanking is discipline.
Now, like a child. I think I have a lot from the experience of the whip. Leather belt, you have a great understanding of what went wrong. I do not think this is one of the negatives in my life. I also teach my son til he learns to ADHD and can not control every action all the time. But sometimes even a spanking or 2 in a month, more than expected in general .. and respects me for stations and apologized to me and tell me what went wrong and lets me know that they are again. So I know that hitting can help .. no damage. Do no harm, I Spank reasonably available up to 3 times. I usually sit in the corner .. seems to be worse than a beating, and he even asked me, whip, instead of sitting in the corner, only 5 minutes. But I see nothing wrong .. Fight as long as necessary and not hit the child. Spanking is very different shots .. Hope this helps a little. Ah .. I've never been arrested or convictedType of crime. Must have been all the beatings I received as a child .. I just know it better.
Yes, I am like a kid and I've never been arrested or committed a crime. How to believe a black man and you do not tell him that beating children as a punishment for slaverey. As a child, as much as I loved (and still) to my parents, I want to beat me. I believe that the conflict should be a last result in the sanction of my future children. I have three main Sulut punishment.
1. give a verbal warning
2. Handcuffs a timeout for an entire hour. However, stick with this key.
3. Privillage by far most widely used.
Up to 3 tablespoons of salsa 4.feed without water4 15 minutes.
And if all else fails, try a little harder, and if not, then the belt yo ', cause it's spank'in time.
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